Well... we all know the man's opinion. We don't want foreplay (not most of the time), we're not in the mood for soft touches because we're eager to see the grand finale. Yes, we men don't like foreplay more than 50% of the time. But this is not about us. The ladies usually prefer the other approach. Women are like cats... you need to chase them around to get them in your lap and when you do, they stretch out and want to be pet. We've just chased you, God damn it! We've chased you around, we've given you our best lines, we've looked deep into your eyes, bought you dinner, saw that boring love story in the theater... and you want more of that chasing in the bed. I don't get it. I thought I passed the test since you're in my bed.
Dudes, bear with them... they'll always want the soft touches, whispers, etc. That's how women are... there are the rare "fuck me hard" ones, but you don't want to see their faces in the morning. Those are the ones you fuck and call them a cab. And it's true you always see fast fucking in porn movies, but that's porn, idiot! They know very well what I've just said, they need to sell sex. Porn is for men, period! Close-ups, weird positions, cumming all over her face, all those fictional scenarios... as if the nurse will give you a blow job ... Let's get real!
Making her come faster
There are advantages to the slow approach, though. Have patience... you must have tried arousing her in the past and you probably know some of the female erogenous areas. Not all of them probably because you're a man, but it should worth knowing. Try massaging her, rub her feet gently, lick her ears, kiss her neck, kiss her hands and softly bite her thighs. Do this for at least 5 minutes and she's half way there. It should be now a lot easier making her come; she should be wet and nipples pointing straight at you. Right before penetration softly massage and lick her labia; right now you're the best fuck in a long time if not ever! You could have premature ejaculation problems, but right now it doesn't matter anymore as she is so close.
Another tip from me... it's free... after she came and finally recovered from it you can tell her you want her to dress up kinky next time. I'm 99% positive you won't get a negative response. You could ask her to masturbate in front of you next time for what it's worth... she won't say no because she knows next time it'll be great as well. This slow approach not only gets her closer to the climax, but conserves your energy and stamina. Go full speed into sex and not only you'll finish sooner, but it could be painful for her if she's not lubricated, you could give her a soar back or neck.
Your share of fun and pleasure
After she's done, try and keep it slow until you're done as well. Because you can now do anything you want with her, turn her, twist her, make her kneel, take her from behind... anything! She's still recovering from a strong orgasm and you're prolonging her sensations. Now it's your turn... as you do whatever you feel like, get the best out of it! Thrust deep and penetrate full length each time... slowly. You're taking advantage of more pleasure and the ending will be spectacular.
Learn to pase yourself, not to hurry it if you've started slow. If you feel like going faster, bite her, but not very hard. This way you can consume that urge and excite her even more. Change rhythm every now and then so that it won't turn into a mechanical action. She's not fucking any other guy... she is fucking you, the best lay so far and it started perfectly. Don't ruin it once you've penetrated. Keep kissing, touching, licking, biting gently.
Keep it cool, be her best lay ever
Approach every sexual encouter with her with confidence and honesty, as well as with respect. If she needed a hard pecker, she would have been doing a dildo right now. You're the unpredictible, confident man that takes sudden action, surprises her and touches her all over. You should now know better that hurry it up. She WILL brag about you to her friends and you'll definetly see some changed looks on her friends' faces.
